ddevore,
Yes, you should have the access points on a different management VLAN than the clients that connect to them, especially in larger clusters. Please see sriram's advice in the thread here; http://community.arubanetworks.com/t5/Aruba-Instant-Cloud-Wi-Fi/Settings-for-New-Install-At-Middle-School/td-p/87962 Yes, having too much traffic can affect the management interface, especially wired broadcast traffic.
There is no way to automatically detect an IAP and set a VLAN, no.
You will probablyhave to:
- create a single additional vlan on your HP Layer 3 switch
- extend it to all of your MAS switches via trunks between switches and trunks on AP interfaces
- Put your wireless users on that new VLAN by changing the VLAN number in the SSID configuration
Since you have a /16 you might even consider creating an additional VLAN for AP management and extending that to your switches as well. You would make that new management vlan the untagged or default VLAN on those ports and then have the wireless client vlan be the tagged vlan on those ports. In the long term, this would provide the greatest stability and performance for your network.
If you feel you cannot handle this redesign, please get some professional advice so that things are less painful. You already have a lab setup, so you look like you are on your way.