Thanks MichaelM55 for this detailed answer!
Yes, the 3Com 4800G and HP 5500-EI switchs are very similar, only difference seems to be support for PoE+ and the much more powerful power supply (up to 740W) at the HP 5500-EI. Interestingly, this (JD368B) HP 5500/5120, 2-port, 10GbE SFP+ Module is NOT listed at the HP 4800G accessories product page. It is listed only at HP 5500-EI accessories page.
BUT, if you click there on it, a window opens, and you will see that the 4800G (and others) will be yet listed! Very confusing and incomprehensible, why it is listed here as compatible but not at the HP 4800G accessories product page?
Here follows the compatibility list, it seems that the HP JD368B module will also work with very old 3Com 4200G and 4500G switches. Just awesome. :)
HP 5500/5120 2-port 10GbE SFP+ Module (JD368B), 2 SFP+ 10-GbE ports
Compatible products
HP 5500 HI Switch Series
HP 5830 Switch Series
HP 5120 EI Switch Series
HP 5500 EI Switch Series
HP 5500 SI Switch Series
HP 4800G Switch Series
HP 4500G Switch Series
HP 4210G Switch Series
HP 4510G Switch Series
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