@johnnym57
I beliveve you missed out checking the IRF logical ports.
I logical ports are to be cross connected.
1/1 goes to 2/2 and 1/2 goes to 2/1.
You cannot connect 1/1 to 2/1 or 1/2 to 2/2.
One of the below should work:
irf-port 1/1
port group interface Ten-GigabitEthernet1/0/45
port group interface Ten-GigabitEthernet1/0/46
irf-port 2/2
port group interface Ten-GigabitEthernet2/0/45
port group interface Ten-GigabitEthernet2/0/46
OR
irf-port 1/2
port group interface Ten-GigabitEthernet1/0/45
port group interface Ten-GigabitEthernet1/0/46
irf-port 2/1
port group interface Ten-GigabitEthernet2/0/45
port group interface Ten-GigabitEthernet2/0/46
Hope this helps.
Have a nice day.