Ah, I see on the second page. I didn't see that when I first browsed that thread. This is the relevant bits that dannyjump posted:
Figuring out which disk is active v inactive, the best way is to use the vSphere/vCenter tools...in vSphere.....
Go to the monitoring page and click on performance. There will be a drop-down list on the RHS of the screen....'Switch to:' Select virtual disk......if you only see a single disk....go to chart options and ensure all disk are selected under 'Objects'.......
You should see either disk one (scsi 0:1) or two (scsi 0:2) with activity. The one that does not have any activity can be deleted and then re-added, ensure you double the size of this disk from its previous size.
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This makes total sense. In vSphere I do see a disk with 0 activity and one with a bunch. However, I suspect because of how I added the disks, the two disks show up as the same iSCSI Device target. I thought to check vSphere's (I've got 5.1) datastore to see which vmdk file wast modified but that doesn't help either (modified date was 4 days ago on both the vmdk files).
I suppose I may have to suck it up and reboot to see.