Hi,
we had the same issue.
I guess you are allready familiar with the seed address.(one ("the first") ArubaOS-CX device at the far end subnet)
Even that wasn't working in all situations for us.
What realy helped was a 1:1 device adding process
So at the device adding form:
Subnet: deviceIP/32 with your related credential
Seed Addresses: deviceIP of the particular device
We repeated that procedure for each device. Takes some more time but works 100%.
(in some cases adding with a larger target subnet NetEdit added some of the devices but not all)
Regrads