In that case, VSF is an option as well. VSF enables the two 5400R chassis to operate like a single switch. (Kinda like stacking on 3810M)
If you proceed with VSF, the LACP trunk conection between the two member 5400R VSF and the 3810M stack will simply be a lacp trunk link with two member ports on the 5400R VSF and 3810M stack.
trunk 1/A1,2/A1 trk1 lacp
VSF is documented on Chapter 22 (page 530) of the same manual. Linked below again:
http://h20565.www2.hpe.com/hpsc/doc/public/display?sp4ts.oid=7074783&docLocale=en_US&docId=emr_na-c05365312
Cheers,
-Scott