Thanks Charlie,
I don't have any other Aruba AP's in my home but I do have 3 Google Mesh AP's.
I am thinking that the unit is "bricked", only because the Sys LED would blink every now and then and once is a while would blink Red. The Radio LED would come on intermittently. The time it takes to bring up the login prompt (either via doing an ssh command or via a web http login) is much greater than before. Sometimes 30 secs to a minute or more.
i dropped it off with one of our support engineers at work today and picked up another one to use.
thanks
Also I can easily ping the device but would get varying responses in the RTT time, like varying 50-60 ms at times. This was over the wired ethernet, and I have pinged these units before and never saw such variations. This is just a large guess on my part that the host is so busy spinning that it can't respond. (again a guess).