The truth is that you cannot achive more than 16 in one cluster if you got 1 instant 93 on it... Just 1 intant 93 will lock the cluster to 16...
The only way to have it centrilized are these 3 options
1-Aruba Central = Managing differnt cluster with the Aruba Central
2-Airwave = Managing different clusters with the airwave
3- Buying a controller
Now you have to analyze things:
If you go for the controller you need to take in mind that you willl loose your redundancy!( if the controller dies all your system will go down) Unless you buy another controller and have it on VRRP on stanby or have the second controller on local mode.
As a personal opinion, if that partner told you that you will be able to put everything in one cluster even if you had IAP93 there is something wrong with that partner, i would go and contact another one.... i mean this is something really basic. and they should have known this.
With my clients i tell them really clear that if they put one IAP 93 in their cluster it will be locked to 16 APS.
Now what you should do? well it depends on your budget, and the features you want. Are you okay with the features you already got with instant? or are you looking for more features? such as VPN Termination which is really handly sometimes, or a captive portal that can manage users that expire?
You need to ask yourselft
1-What is my budget?
2-What you are looking for?
3-the company can keep working without wireless? or everything will stop if you dont have wireless??( This is for the redundancy part) At least i got a few clients in which they are full Wireless and if that doesnt work they all go down! so they need redundancy!) is this is your case???
Cheers
Carlos