128 GB RAM seems good, but there are some more variables.
Not all of this is dedicated to VisualRF. Other things to look at:
VisualRF Setup -> Memory Allocation
Number of floor plans
Number of APs
Number of clients at peak
Gridsizing of floor plans
To get better in-depth look, I suggest getting TAC to review this. You can get their assist to help fine tune some of the performance toggles.