kk1976,
You have to disconnect the mesh point.
In ArubaOS, after mesh points are provisioned they will no longer connect to a controller or portal over the same L2 network. This is normal behavior.
The last line in your mesh point output appears to confirm that the unit is provisioned and ready to accept a mesh uplink:
# vap aruba001 vlan is 0. fwd-mode:0 mesh
The VAP is telling you there is a virtual AP, on the private (mesh) VLAN of 0, set to mesh forwarding mode.